I’ve been putting a lot of pressure on myself this month to create meaningful content. But I don’t have much to say.
I rant and discuss and reflect often enough, but my brain is too scattered, too absorbed in the task of figuring out what I’m going to do with my life, to spew out anything coherent or meaningful.
Everything’s been fine. But as I settle into living here – as it becomes less like a vacation – I’m restless to just get on with my life:
To change the world, or at least a small part of it.
To know my path.
To achieve something visible, tangible, momentous.
To feel, each day, that I’m living life right.
And I’m past the point of thinking that there’s one particular right path I was predestined to follow. I recognize the big lie that success is measured by high levels of both stress and income. And I daily stop to remember that I’m young – and I repeat all the cliche phrases that accompany that thought for good measure.
There’s a misplaced, or displaced, drive, I think. I want to Do Something. I’ve gotten used to people telling me what to do and how to plan my time.
The whole point, I guess, is that it’s up to me to create and follow all the steps. The safety wheels and floaties are actually off now. I have to make decisions and follow through. But I also get to be in charge and achieve something and bask in the results.
I’m mostly afraid that I will collapse into the ashes of my bankrupted dreams – that the light will flicker out, that I’ll end up a prisoner to absolute failure.
Leah Wise 